Unsupportive Spouse

Want to create success but your spouse just doesn’t support you?

This will help you better deal with the situation.

How to Make a Fortune In Network Marketing With An Unsupportive Spouse

What do we do if our wife or husband is about to leave us if we stay in network marketing?

It’s a very serious question.

Have You Kept Your Word?

A lot of times, a non-supportive spouse was once supportive. Not all the time, but sometimes.

I would say a lot of times.

Sometimes a supportive spouse becomes a non-supportive spouse when you haven’t kept your word.

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If you’re going back to the spouse and saying:

“Hey, we’re going to crush it, or we’re going to do this, we’re going to make lots of money, it’s good. We’re going to get there in 30 days, we’re going to do this.”

You’re setting up expectations. And, a lot of times a supportive spouse after hearing this for so long, will become a non-supportive spouse.

There’s two suggestions around this scenario.

First of all, do what you say you’re going to do, which is the actual work.

The grinding, the reaching out to people, and while doing that, set the expectations, and don’t ask for their support, but ask them for a period of time.

Say, “Hey, you don’t have to believe in it, you don’t have to agree with it, you don’t even have to accept it, but let me run with this thing for the next six months.”

But you gotta keep your word.

Don’t promise them that it’s going to be fast, or easy overnight.

Building Isn’t Overnight

Don’t promise them anything like that, because it’s unrealistic.

And, you also shouldn’t be promising that to anyone that you’re recruiting either. Big mistake. Saying that, “Oh, how easy my business is to build,” huge mistake on social media. Huge mistake, period. Stop saying it’s easy, or you’re going to attract people looking for easy.

Stop Trying To Convince

But back to the spouse. Best thing you can do is stop trying to convince them it’s a good idea and go show them.

Go get results.

Your promises aren’t going to get them to buy into the idea.

You go in and say, “Hey, I just paid the car off. Hey, I just did this, got you a new purse. Don’t worry about it, it’s out of my weekly check.” Go show them.

Stop Requiring Others To Believe

Stop asking for them to have the same level of belief that you have, because you don’t need that. You don’t require them to believe the same way you do. You gotta stop requiring that.

Did Steve Jobs, Henry Ford and all those guys, did everyone around them just totally believe at the same level that they believed it? Of course not.

Not until they saw it.

Let them see the benefits. Let them see that. Stop asking them to believe at the level that you believe. That’s my big suggestion.

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