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How to Attract and Enroll the Perfect People into Your MLM

August 29, 2011 by Ray Higdon 37 Comments

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How to Attract and Enroll the Perfect People into Your MLM

Those that think intention and laws of attraction do not play a role in their lives usually have crummy lives. At this point I have the ability to manifest about anything that I want by simply putting my mind to it and then following the doors that are opened in an authentic way. But why do so many people struggle? It is because they are focused on the results they have in their life currently versus the attitude and thinking that created those results. This post will help you to live a better life and also will teach you how to attract the perfect person into your MLM.

Law of Attraction and MLM

Network marketing is an outside the cubicle, err, I mean box way of thinking. You mean I don’t have to slave away for 40 years for a crummy plaque and minimal retirement plan? Yes. In a lot of jobs people simply do not have the belief level that they can become filthy rich from that job no matter what they do so they “turn off” their attraction factor and simply deal with what is in a comfortable misery. Laws of attraction are working constantly whether you choose to tap into the manipulation of them or not. “Go with the flow” is fine so long as you have consciously conjured up a flow that will lead you to a empowered life.

How to attract the perfect people into your MLM

I have heard the perfect person for your business called an “avatar”. This is the perfect person you want in your business. Mine is someone who has been a professional, maybe a Doctor, Real Estate investor/professional, or perhaps someone with a background in marketing that likes network marketing but perhaps has never had major success. They are typically coachable and hungry for success. I know my avatar, do you?

Some people are whiffing for any old person to join their business. They are non-specific in what they want and they get what they ask for, a hodge-podge of reps or prospects that also don’t know what they want.

Let’s start you down the path of powerfully intending what you actually want…

Wayne Dyer and The Power of Intention

Wayne Dyer is one of my favorite teachers. Any of his books are awesome but The Power of Intention is especially good. In it he lays out some rules to attracting ideal people that I will pull from and help you digest in the intent of building your network marketing business.

Step 1: Stop hoping, wishing, and begging for the right reps to show up in your business. If you cannot banish all doubt about your ability to attract the perfect people into your business, the rest of this article will not help. Know that the energy that is you will dictate what shows up in your life. If you keep telling it like it is, things will stay like they are. Stop telling your story of woe and demise unless you want that to remain. Know that from wherever you are, you can get to where you want to go once you change your intention and banish all self-doubt.

Step 2: Form a picture in your mind of meeting your perfect person for your business. Wayne says be specific as possible but don’t share this vision with anyone as you will be asked to explain yourself, defend yourself and have to deal with the low energy of doubts that can so easily invade us. Here are some suggestions for you that are emotionally charged:

* Picture clapping for your perfect person as they walk across the stage receiving a company award
* Picture them speaking on stage and pointing at you in the crowd to thank for introducing them into the business
* Imagine people watching your presentation and afterwards saying “This is a no-brainer”
* Listen in as they conduct a training webinar for their team with a picture of you as their enroller

Smile when you imagine these things, be grateful as if they have already happened

Step 3: Bust the Universe/God for it’s conspiring ways

Start to live your life, after you have done steps 1 and 2, in a way that sees the Universe/God as conspiring constantly for your good. When you meet someone that fits your perfect picture know that they may be an agent that is to lead you to your perfect person or they may be it. Smile inside knowing that “it is working”. Someone I know once said, Coincidences are God’s way of staying anonymous. Know that there are no coincidences, however, you do have to act on your part. If a path is laid out to you such as attending an event or going up to and meeting someone, you have to act upon it or you are sending a message to the universe/god that you do not really want that path.

My Always Excited Kids

Step 4: Maintain the Right Attitude

When you focus on what you want long enough, things will pop up to help create the mindset to allow those things/people to show up in your life. Not everything will be a bed of roses all the time but know that each event that happens occurs on purpose to help you create the mental environment to support your successful attainment of your goals. Never dip into the low energy of “This doesn’t work” even if on the surface it appears that way. Another way of looking at it is, what do you have to lose? Being positive never killed anyone and in fact would vastly improve the world.

Step 6: Practice being the type of person you want to attract

What does your perfect prospect do? Where do they hang out? What movies do they watch? What books do they read? Start practicing being the exact person you want to attract. You attract who you are, not who you want.

Step 7: Don’t be addicted to the outcome

You may locate people that you believe would be perfect fits for you and your business that say no to you. Do not get frustrated. Being addicted to the outcome means you have an ego problem and ego’s can only cost you time, energy and also money. The right actions are taking place to help you most efficiently flow to what you want and desire.

Step 8: Remain in Perfect Gratitude

Be grateful for all the things that have happened in your past as they shaped who you are today. I believe it is impossible to attract new, life changing things into your life without first having gratitude for what you already have. Be grateful you found this blog today to start your new journey. Be grateful you have eyes to see and clean water to drink. Be grateful of that certain teacher in high school or that author that wrote that one book that helped you. Remain in this attitude of gratitude and your life immediately starts operating at a higher level which is where all the good stuff is.

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  1. Micah says

    August 29, 2011 at 1:13 pm

    Step six is my favorite. It’s something I work at every day.

    I know the power of the law of attraction, I used it to manifest some very powerful, major changes in my life. This was 4 years ago, before I had even heard of the law of attraction.

    Dr Wayne Dyer is on of my very favorite teachers. His teachings are what inspired me to get off the couch and stop wasting my life. He started me on a path that has ultimately lead me here.

    This is a great post Ray, an excellent reminder and an inspiration.

  2. Fontella Williams says

    August 29, 2011 at 1:15 pm

    I love this post Ray. It’s littered with not golden, but diamond nuggets from beginning to end. Thanks for sharing such wisdom and always when I need a gentle reminder. I started visualization techniques ever since reading John Kehoe’s Mind Power. But now you have given me some new visions that I hadn’t thought of before.

    And step #7. That’s a doozy for me. Perhaps you should write a post on how to kill the ego and surrender the outcome. Maybe you already have though.

  3. Ian belanger | Network Marketing Success says

    August 29, 2011 at 3:39 pm

    Hey Ray,

    Great post!

    Lots of times the person who you think might be perfect on your team, will say no or turn out not to be good at all. There are no perfect team members out there.

    The key is to recognize the people who stand out on your team, the ones who are eager to learn and are driven to succeed. Those people are the ones who you need to “show the way”. Of course, we don’t want to ignore anyone on our teams, but if you can pick out the leaders on your team and mold them into something more. You are well on your way to creating a powerful team and helping alot of people along the way.

    Thanks for sharing this Ray and have a good one!

  4. Nicholas Wind says

    August 29, 2011 at 3:41 pm

    Not foo foo what so ever Ray.
    I should know I WAS a master bridge burner for years.
    The antithesis of Dr. Dwyer and you.
    Still comes out sometimes but I don’t like me when I’m like that.
    I was older than you are now when I learned this.
    So what…right?
    I’ve also become a fitness trainer at 55.
    Age does not matter.
    I want to go in the hole still improving.
    Great post Ray!!

  5. irene says

    August 29, 2011 at 3:42 pm

    great post. i am seeing these truths more and more in my life every day. jeffrey combs talks about this a lot as well. funny how the goals to reach spirituality and financial wealth require the same steps.

  6. Bud says

    August 29, 2011 at 3:49 pm

    Man this is more than awesome! I don’t know of any business with this mindset that I’ve worked with.. (I know they exists) Thanks Ray .. I thank Terry P too for being part of my manifest!

    Bud Thompson

  7. Hale says

    August 29, 2011 at 5:15 pm

    My perfect person likes Figi and has the initials R.H. Great post Ray. You put some real energy into this one.
    Hale

  8. Robert Fraser says

    August 29, 2011 at 5:47 pm

    Very true. We hold the keys to our ultimate success or failure and simply we can choose which one for ourself. Thank you!
    Rob

  9. Trish Partyka says

    August 29, 2011 at 6:05 pm

    I LOVE IT!
    I have just began implementing the “Law of Attraction” into my daily living due to reading “Secrets of a Millionaire Mind” by T Harv Eker and there is a MAJOR difference in my life. I am going to pick up “The Power of Intention”. I read “The Secret”, but the whole way of thinking hasn’t resonated as much as it does now. Great post!

  10. Val says

    August 29, 2011 at 6:30 pm

    You are what you think about the most.

  11. Jo says

    August 29, 2011 at 7:32 pm

    Ray you’ve done it again. Awesome, at a time when I really needed reminding, of what I always claim to know, but as a wise man said if you know and you are not practising, do you really know. Thanks for sending this out, you said it yourself, this coincidence is God’s way of staying anonymous in my life. I am grateful that I attracted you in my life.

    Gratitude is the attitude that seals it with God.

    Superb Post

  12. Ray Higdon says

    August 29, 2011 at 9:12 pm

    Thanks so much Micah

  13. Ray Higdon says

    August 29, 2011 at 9:13 pm

    I do talk about it a lot, agreed, it is one of the ones that most people struggle with

  14. Eric Walker says

    August 29, 2011 at 10:31 pm

    Totally foo-foo man

    I’m so joking 😉

    I need more of this stuff.
    Haven’t consistently given
    these ideas enough practice.

    Good read man.

  15. Dan Rice says

    August 29, 2011 at 11:42 pm

    Great teaching Ray. Add the spoken word describing your avatar and those interactions with them as step 8 and I think the results go to the next level. Very key that you don’t have to be the top recruiter to be the top earner.

  16. Ryan Biddulph says

    August 30, 2011 at 6:15 am

    Hi Ray,

    In a blog of sensational posts this might be my favorite one.

    I practice LOA moment by moment. Such a powerful way to create the life of your dreams. Set an intent, get to work and get the hell out of the way, letting the Universe handle the rest.

    #7 used to be a sticking point for me. People – who I thought were awesome matches – were ready to join my club at the highest level, I got way too attached, and for whatever reason they never hopped on board.

    Then I began to fully accept this statement: The Universe has positioned us perfectly in this moment.

    Wonderful affirmation, I luv it!

    I also take a 5-10 break each hour to either meditate, affirm, or visualize. I check my vibe and realign when necessary.

    Thanks for sharing your insight Ray! Keep on rockin it 😉

    RB

  17. Ray Higdon says

    August 30, 2011 at 6:19 am

    Glad you liked and thanks!

  18. Ray Higdon says

    August 30, 2011 at 6:19 am

    Thanks so much Nicholas

  19. Ray Higdon says

    August 30, 2011 at 6:19 am

    Absolutely, everything becomes easier when you understand that

  20. Ray Higdon says

    August 30, 2011 at 6:20 am

    We are thankful to work with you Bud!

  21. Ray Higdon says

    August 30, 2011 at 6:20 am

    Haha, you got it Hale!

  22. Ray Higdon says

    August 30, 2011 at 6:20 am

    Welcome Rob!

  23. Ray Higdon says

    August 30, 2011 at 6:20 am

    Awesome, glad you like Trish

  24. Ray Higdon says

    August 30, 2011 at 6:20 am

    True Val

  25. Ray Higdon says

    August 30, 2011 at 6:21 am

    Very well said JO

  26. Ray Higdon says

    August 30, 2011 at 6:21 am

    Try them out big guy, they work

  27. Ray Higdon says

    August 30, 2011 at 6:21 am

    Thanks Dan!

  28. Ray Higdon says

    August 30, 2011 at 6:21 am

    I do meditation to help allow and let go at the same time, good stuff

  29. Alan says

    August 30, 2011 at 7:33 am

    Ray, thank you for the constant flow of great quality content. everything you say makes perfect sense.

    Thank you for your leadership, one day I will share a stage with you!

    Alan

  30. Soumangue Basse says

    August 30, 2011 at 8:39 am

    Excellent article brother. I can honestly say right now that the law of attraction coupled w/ Afformations is working for Amanda and I right now..It’s funny that you said, “smile inside when you know it’s working” I’m smiling right now… 🙂

  31. Jae Alexander says

    August 30, 2011 at 8:52 am

    Hi Ray! 🙂
    Thanks for such a FANTABULICIOUS! article. I really enjoyed reading it. The point that particular stood out to me is Step 7 ~ Don’t become addicted to the result. I find this has been true of myself so many times in the past. It’s so easy to fall into this trap. When we want something so bad, it literally hurts! That’s when we start focusing on the result to the point of addiction. But as Joe Vitale puts it in his book, “The Attractor Factor” ~ we have to “get clear” of the result; that is, to stop obsessing. One thing that I have found helps to overcome this is to ask for “this (whatever “this” may be) or something better.” That way you’re not so hung up on the “this” because you know that if you don’t get it, then something better is on the way. I also find that asking the question, “How does it get any better than this?” Whether things go right or wrong for you helps too.

  32. Hezi says

    August 30, 2011 at 1:15 pm

    Hi, Ray

    Definitively true
    Tks for sharing

  33. Bryan Salek says

    September 10, 2011 at 3:19 pm

    Great one, Ray! Step 7 seems to be the biggest challenge for new folks trying to build a team. The others just take time, but as time goes on without success, it seems they struggle more with not becoming addicted to the outcome. Any tips that you use with your team?

  34. Ray Higdon says

    September 10, 2011 at 4:11 pm

    To keep showing up to events and getting reminded why they are doing this business and how to be effective

  35. Etieno Etuk says

    October 13, 2011 at 6:54 pm

    Yes there is power in intentionally attracting the perfect prospect for your business. There is also power in visualizing the outcome that you want. If you can see it in your mind’s eye, you can achieve it in reality. Imagination is one of the most power gifts that have been bestowed on us by our creator.

    Very enlightening post, Ray. Thanks for sharing.

  36. MarieGrace says

    October 28, 2011 at 3:37 am

    This really struck the chords in me! I almost cried… #8 was really powerful! You know when you’ve experienced success in the past and went away, and you’re in your lowest point, you tend to forget the past that you can anchor with. Thanks for reminding me of that!

  37. Emily Kayaloglou says

    January 10, 2015 at 4:08 pm

    Very good indeed! Thank you!

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