Struggling with Debt? Read This Before You Do Anything

by | May 14, 2026 | Mindset & Resilience

If you’re carrying unsecured debt, the system was not designed to help you get out. It was designed to keep you in.

That’s the honest reality Ray Higdon and consumer finance expert Josh Valentine laid out in this eye-opening webinar. Josh has spent 14 years in consumer finance and has helped over 30,000 people resolve more than $1 billion in debt. What he shared will change how you look at your credit cards, your credit score, and your options.

Here is what you need to know before you do anything.

The Debt Crisis Nobody Is Talking About

Americans are currently carrying roughly $1.2 trillion in credit card debt alone. That number does not include auto loans, student loans, medical bills, or personal loans.

And it is getting worse.

Between 2021 and 2024, credit card debt in America surged by 57%. The combination of post-COVID spending, bank-flooded credit offers, and years of high inflation created the perfect storm.

Posture Check: The banks are not neutral parties in this situation. They actively lobby against policies that would lower your interest rates. When their names are on skyscrapers and stadiums, that is not an accident.

What most people do not realize is how credit card interest compounds. It amortizes daily, which means you pay interest on interest, every single day. On a $30,000 balance at 22% interest, paying only the minimum payment would take you nearly 30 years to pay off. The total cost: approximately $110,000.

The math is against you. Not because you did something wrong. Because the system was designed this way.

The Options You Actually Have

Josh walked through every major debt relief path, including their real trade-offs.

Consolidation Loans

Most people reach for a consolidation loan first. The problem: consolidation loans carry high interest rates, and the credit cards are still open. Within 12 to 18 months, many people end up back in the same position with both the loan and new card balances.

Credit Counseling

Credit counseling reduces your interest rates but does not eliminate the principal you owe. You still pay back everything. It typically takes five to six years, your monthly payment is often higher than with other options, and a third-party management note appears on your credit report. Worth knowing: the credit counseling industry was actually created by the banks as a collection arm.

Home Equity

Rolling unsecured debt into your home converts it to secured debt. If the market drops or you miss payments, you risk losing your home. Josh personally spoke to a client who moved $120,000 in debt into their home equity, the market shifted, and now they cannot get out. Once you convert unsecured debt to secured, you lose significant leverage.

Bankruptcy

Bankruptcy is sometimes the right tool, and Josh’s team will tell you honestly if that is your situation. But it stays on the public record in some states for up to 20 years. It should be a last option, not a first one.

Debt Forgiveness and Settlement

This is the approach Josh recommends for most people carrying $10,000 or more in unsecured debt who cannot realistically pay it off in four to six months.

Posture Check: The banks will negotiate. They just will not do it willingly unless you have someone at the table who knows how to push them there.

A structured settlement program can reduce your monthly payments by $300 to $800 or more. It allows you to pay back less than what you owe. The 120 Higdon Group clients referred to Josh’s program collectively saved $82,000 per month in payments and over $5.3 million in total principal reductions. The average client saves roughly $44,000 over four to five years.

What About Your Credit Score?

Ray shared his own story here. He went through foreclosure after the 2008 real estate crash, had 37 rental units he could not sustain, and watched his credit take a significant hit. Years later, his credit score came back to 800.

The credit score is not the goal. It is a tool the banks want you addicted to, because as long as you are protecting your credit score, you keep making minimum payments and stay in debt for decades.

Posture Check: You can pay $110,000 on a $30,000 debt over 30 years and protect your credit score the whole time. Or you can take a temporary hit, eliminate the debt, and rebuild. One of those paths leads to financial freedom.

Debt settlement does not ruin your credit. It temporarily impacts it. Josh’s clients have come back a year after completing their programs with scores at 800.

One important note on taxes: if a portion of your debt is forgiven, the bank may issue a 1099 for the forgiven amount. There is also an IRS Form 982 that, if you qualify as insolvent, may allow you to offset that tax liability. Even in a worst-case scenario, as Josh framed it: if the program saves you $19,200 in cash over four years but you owe $2,000 in taxes on forgiven debt, that is still a deal worth taking every time.

Who This Is For

This program is designed for people who meet all of the following: they have $10,000 or more in unsecured debt (credit cards, personal loans, medical bills, most private student loans), they are on a fixed or salaried income and cannot realistically pay off the full balance within six months, and they want a defined path out of debt without refinancing their home or filing for bankruptcy. Federal student loans and mortgages are not eligible.

The Posture Check

Debt is not a character flaw. It is often the result of a system that was designed to keep you in it.

Ray said it plainly: he spent years treating his credit score like an idol. He was afraid to touch it, even when the math was clearly destroying his financial future. When he finally stopped protecting the score and started protecting his life, everything changed.

You are either working for the bank or you are working for your future. You cannot do both at the same time while carrying high-interest unsecured debt.

Getting free still requires good stewardship. The savings from reduced payments should go toward your future, not back into the cycle. But the first step is knowing there is actually a way out.

If you want to find out what you qualify for, book a free 10 to 12 minute call with Josh’s team. They will tell you your numbers with no pressure and no obligation.

Book your free call at higdongroup.com/reducenow

Ray Higdon

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