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Telling it “Like it is” keeps it “Like it is”
I believe everyone creates their own reality. That doesn’t mean that we necessarily manifest the deaths or sicknesses in our life but I do believe we shape our experiences based on our vocabulary and how we carry ourselves. That being said, if you carry yourself the wrong way, you get what you ask for.
Here are some quotes from varying people from my facebook page.
“glad to see someone making money in this business, cause I am sure not!!”
when discussing a company event:
“I will not have any guest as i myself will not be there, have yet to make a penny with Numis Network so can’t afford to attend. Beside Ray will be the one everyone signs ujp with anyway. why bother with a no star when you can hook up under the only 6 star!”
Now some of you reading those statements cringed and thought, wow, that dude has issues. It goes deeper than that and it has to do with addictions. Every single emotion we carry around with us is tied to certain chemicals in our body, more specifically to amino acid peptides that are issued from our hypothalmus. Every cell in our body dies off at some point, some within seconds, minutes or even years but those cells inherit the traits of the past cells. So, when you are depressed, depression amino acid peptides get sent from the hypothalmus and attach to our cells then when they die, the new cells inherit the traits of the past cells (which include the depressive traits). That kind of explains the downward spiral doesn’t it? THE LONGER YOU BITCH ABOUT HOW BAD THINGS ARE, THE MORE BAD YOU WILL NOTICE THINGS BECOMING.
The continued practice of telling everyone how bad things are dictates the manifesting of more bad things. The payoff for the complainer is they get attention. A lot of times they may believe that they are unable to get attention by actually producing so in their efforts to get attention, they find comfort in being cynical, skeptical, spending time talking about others and in general being a debbie downer.
“The ability to say Woe is Me shows the abundance of inactivity”
- Ray Higdon
If you truly do want to have a different life experience, you have to be willing to change what your focus is on. If you get a major payoff from complaining and getting negative attention then you certainly can keep doing that and keep having crummy experiences. It is guaranteed to work so there is a level of comfort there. The more you complain and moan and cry, you will assuredly get more to moan and cry about (maybe our Fathers had more wisdom than they knew!).
Change Your Story
Pretend like you have a magic wand. But, it’s one of those funny magic wands that you could actually screw up with. For example, if you were in 110 degree temperature you might joke and say “Boy, I need a jacket” and POOF, you would then be wearing a jacket. So, pretend like whatever you focus on or talk about WILL show up in your life like magic. If you talk about how tough things are, they will get tougher. If you talk about how little money you have, you will get less money. But, on the flip side, if you talk about how great things are becoming or how much you are learning or how wonderful life is, THAT is what you will see with this magic wand.
You have the magic wand, use it wisely.
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July 30, 2010 at 2:54 pm
I use My Magic wand everyday….even if I dont get results immediately, I know they are in my pipeline and working their way through.
I remember that post that you mentioned: “I will not have any guest as i myself will not be there, have yet to make a penny with Numis Network so can’t afford to attend. Beside Ray will be the one everyone signs ujp with anyway. why bother with a no star when you can hook up under the only 6 star!”
I felt like responding and telling him he needs to get out of his own way…but I refrained
Thanks again Ray for another great post.
Diane~
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Ray Higdon Reply:
July 30th, 2010 at 3:30 pm
Not everyone is ready for advice, keep working your magic!
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July 30, 2010 at 3:02 pm
This is so true. I’m tired of hearing people complain but they take no actions to change or they always blame someone else as if they are doing nothing wrong. These are lessons I’m learning and it’s really hard to change. But it’s a change I surely welcome. Keep doing what you doing and you’ll keep getting what you been getting.
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Ray Higdon Reply:
July 30th, 2010 at 3:31 pm
Exactly!
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July 30, 2010 at 3:22 pm
Great post Ray, once again.
I especially liked the actual biological and chemical break down that you gave us up front. Great defense for those thinking you are just a motivational speaker
It’s hard to argue with science.
Anyways, it is definitely true and I have seen it in my own life. The more you talk about negative things, the worse things become, the more you focus on positive things, more things happen.
Thanks for the great post Ray!
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Ray Higdon Reply:
July 30th, 2010 at 3:31 pm
You got it!
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July 30, 2010 at 3:38 pm
Ray well said,, and even provided scientific evidence. I am def. sending this one around to my down line and social media in case they missed it.
If I know you well Ray, you have already extended the olive branch to this person who is “pouting out loud”. I only hope they were smart enough to step up and accept the challenge of being coached & reprogrammed by you.
Some people do not want to change the way they think, but we can sure as hell try and change them!
Keep Rocking It BIG DOG!
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July 30, 2010 at 5:40 pm
I agree with this 1000% Ray. Last week,I talked to my friend who is a life coach and we were talking about the law of attraction. After I hung up with her, I took my dog for a walk to the park. On the way there, I got an email on my iPhone from “The Secret”.That was a funny coincidence I thought, but when I saw the animal services van roll up literally 30 seconds after I though about having my dog off leash, I had to laugh.If that wasn’t a reminder that we attract what we think about, then I don’t know what is! When I look back at some major things (both good and bad) that have happened to me in my life, they all happened because I was focusing so much on them. I truly believe in that ,so why not focus on great things happening to us? So much better than the contrary!
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July 30, 2010 at 6:09 pm
Ray
Touche’ Ray. Thanks for the reality adjustment!
Whining and entitlement have put many of us into the life challenges we face (me included countless times!)
There are either excuses or results!
When faced with challenges beyond your capabilities: Ask for help!
Whether I’m working with kids or big kids (adults) – the conversation usually boils down to:
Do you trust in yourself?
Where do you want to go?
What’s your plan?
How hard are you willing to work?
and for how long?
“Oh, by the way, I’m available for assistance, should you need it”.
My goal is to replace all excuses by changing your story to: How do I make it better?
We are what we think!
There is a better way!
Thanks for leading the way as “good will” and “tough love” ambassador!
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July 30, 2010 at 7:25 pm
hy ray,
what an fantastic and genial post have you created!? i like that. it´s all about how you communicate with yourself and how you regulate your self-talk. nobody else can produce and indicate our thought processes for us nor what we plan and what we do, besides us.
we have to be aware about what´s going on in our head and how we handle in particular situations!
thank you a lot for sharing this high quality content!
all the best
gerald
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July 30, 2010 at 8:39 pm
Hey Ray,
Hi Ray,
Great post, we are what we think, thank you for the value and the powerful straight talk and abundant thinking you have inspired me to take on more and more each day in my life, not only for me but whom I touch in my team each day it trickles down from the top.
Unmessable I have heard you say before and I have used that the other day in a post on my wall in FB. Taking actions are the key one little thing a day will amount to a huge success, but action is key. and changing our own self Image awesome post.
See you next week.
Mark
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July 30, 2010 at 9:19 pm
Hi Ray,
that post goes very deep. Thanks for sharing. We all have everything we need – the magic wand. I like that
The only question is: Do we use it to our advantage or to our detriment ?
Thanks for sharing your valuable insights.
Take care
Oliver
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July 30, 2010 at 11:12 pm
Hello Ray, awesome as usual, some times circumstances make life tough but with a positive attitude things will be good. That post is a great reminder of where we need to be. Thanks, Andrew Gallop
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July 31, 2010 at 3:10 pm
This post couldn’t be more true, I see myself as the person your talking about. Thanks Ray for pointing this out to me once again, I am going to fix my attitude and posture so I can present a winner to my prospects.
God Bless,
Blaine Means
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July 31, 2010 at 3:17 pm
The difference between success and failure truly is a matter of your own opinion of yourself and a direct reflection of only you.
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July 31, 2010 at 6:28 pm
Hey Ray,
I learn lots from you and I appreciate all the great stuff you teach us! That quote from the second guy is awesome! More sign ups for us right? lol
After I learned about not becoming addicted to outcomes and really applying it, my biz life has gone so much better. Not so stressed and having more success. There are a million people out there, we just need to find the right ones!
~Erin
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July 31, 2010 at 6:47 pm
You rock Ray!
You are more than on target!
If people have problems they should Watch ‘Breakthrough’ a tv series that just started on NBC that Tony Robbins is doing. It will show you the true integrity of people and power of human emotions!
thanks for all you do Dude!
Jeremy
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August 1, 2010 at 2:50 am
Hey Ray – great post, and agree with what you are saying. I wrote a similar post about throwing pity parties for yourself in your own honour when failing! The more you think about or continue to carry a trait the more of that you will have.
Great info
cheers
Nat
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August 2, 2010 at 1:26 am
Thanks Ray
A great post and very well put. It is so true.
Sue
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August 2, 2010 at 2:22 am
Love This!! So very true, I’m glad you are telling it like it is..some people don’t even realize this is the way life works…Thanks Ray!
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August 15, 2010 at 7:37 pm
I love this. I can’t wait to put my magic wand to use more.
Thanks!
Staci Gauny
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