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How to Succeed in Life (Regardless of Your Circumstances!)
I spend a lot of time talking to people about how to succeed in life. It is interesting that most people argue their limitations like they are getting paid to do so. I tell people that I fight for their greatness and their possibility, even if they refuse! Here is the deal, What You Need to Succeed in Life, Doesn’t Cost You A Dime & Has Nothing to Do With Your Past!
Now, some of you read that statement and immediately got defensive. Well, Ray, You Don’t Understand! I was born with one leg, had to walk to school uphill both ways in the driving snow and had to fight neighborhood bullies the whole way with the only weapon available which was a wooden spoon!
OK, that simply sounds ridiculous right? Well, so do the excuses I hear everyday. Sometimes they are not excuses but they are things that if ONLY they had, they would succeed. This, also, is not the case. You can succeed in life right where you are, with simply changing your mindset. Now, this video shows you how to succeed in life and it is from my perspective as a home based business leader. So, you will hear in this video what I believe will help you succeed in life in network marketing but these principles apply to ANY business. If you enjoy this post and the video, please do me a favor and share with others and retweet and comment.
To Your Abundance!
Ray Higdon
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March 26, 2010 at 8:37 pm
You can either have excuses or success. You can’t have both. People spend so much time trying to justify their existence that it becomes difficult for them to make their life better. And what we try to do is let them know that there is another way. I will join you, Ray, in fighting for people’s greatness. Enjoy!
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Ray Higdon Reply:
November 16th, 2010 at 2:47 pm
Love fighting for others greatness!
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March 26, 2010 at 8:46 pm
Cool haircut…LOL!!
Very good info Ray. Thanks buddy!
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Ray Higdon Reply:
November 16th, 2010 at 2:47 pm
Haha, you can have a bad haircut and succeed!
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March 26, 2010 at 9:11 pm
I was nodding my head the whole time.
I’m glad I don’t need an organized office either. LOL!
Robbie J.
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Ray Higdon Reply:
November 16th, 2010 at 2:47 pm
LOL, yeah man!
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March 26, 2010 at 9:55 pm
Thanks All, It looks like I am yelling in the still pic of the video, lol
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March 26, 2010 at 11:44 pm
Ray,
Another great training video that helps put things in perspective. You are keeping it real when you separate the wheat from the chaff…..the fundamentals are about the mindset of the individual……everything else can be thought of as fluff….even the hair ?? That can be hard to swallow when you’re follicled challenged.
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Ray Higdon Reply:
November 16th, 2010 at 2:48 pm
Perhaps lack of follicles is a good thing! Nothing to worry about!
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March 27, 2010 at 1:41 am
Great stuff Ray!!
It’s a shame however that the people that would benefit the most from this video will probably come up with an excuse why they couldn’t watch the entire thing.
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Ray Higdon Reply:
November 16th, 2010 at 2:48 pm
LOL, so true, I am always torn with that argument
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March 27, 2010 at 2:24 am
Simply said but very profound ~
“You can succeed in life right where you are, with simply changing your mindset.”
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March 27, 2010 at 3:01 am
Ray,
Great Inspirations. I have been in and out of mlm for the past 20 years and in all my struggle, I have never met or seen anything like the way you present and promote self confidence and self assurance.
AWESOME JOB!!
Thank You !!
Jamie Smith
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Ray Higdon Reply:
November 16th, 2010 at 2:48 pm
Thanks Jamie
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March 27, 2010 at 9:57 am
Hi Ray,
Thanks for the timely video and great ideas to get over the
excuses that people use for not succeeding in network marketing.
Thank You,
Charles Hopson
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March 27, 2010 at 11:58 am
Your blog is so informative … keep up the good work!!!!
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March 27, 2010 at 12:36 pm
10-4 Ray.
The only free cheese is in the mouse trap!
If it’s easy everyone would “make it.”
I don’t want it to be easy.That’s why it pays so well.
Get better and get busy.
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March 27, 2010 at 7:05 pm
Amazing timing…Learning to see past emotions and assumptions for what they are, will help us all see what is real and give us certainty as to where we’re heading. Unfounded fears grow like weeds in a climate of ignorance. Thanks for opening my eyes.
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March 28, 2010 at 4:41 am
Hey Ray,
Excellent video and absolutely spot on correct. The haircut…now that’s important, just ask Eric Worre and Randy Gage. lol
John Rothstein
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March 29, 2010 at 11:03 pm
he he he – Love the still shot! Thanks for keeping it real! Many times I feel the same – you just want to shake people by the shoulders so that they will hear what you have to say. They just don’t realize that you are trying to help.
Enjoyed the vid – keep them rolling.
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March 30, 2010 at 9:44 pm
I agree Ray, getting thru the excuses is the hard part, but, once you admit it’s JUST an excuse, there’s no reason why you can’t do it & why you can’t make it happen. You CAN be successful.
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April 18, 2010 at 12:30 pm
great work thx!
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April 26, 2010 at 7:13 pm
I agree Ray. There are two things in life. Excuses or results. What are we going to go for? Results is the only thing that counts.
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April 30, 2010 at 3:54 pm
It’s a mindset
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April 30, 2010 at 7:23 pm
WOW..thanks Ray for the video, I was always the one that made excuses because of my handicap to speak, I lost my voice a few years ago, and I felt with my limitations I would not be successful in any MLM biz, I felt who would want to do business with a mute.. but I’m learning ways overcome those limitations ..Thanks again!
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May 1, 2010 at 2:56 am
I enjoy visiting daily to see your thoughts. I have your page bookmarked on my daily read list!
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May 7, 2010 at 8:26 pm
Great Stuff!!!!
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May 12, 2010 at 2:34 am
Hi Ray!
It’s my first time stopping by your blog and I must say I love the header! Great post you have here, very true that people make excuses all to often because of their “circumstances”. I like your style and your video was informative!
Keep rockin!
Amanda
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May 12, 2010 at 3:32 am
Ray,Your video is great. Keep it up. You are right the past don’t have anything to do with if you succeed or not. You are your own person.
Karen
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May 12, 2010 at 12:35 pm
The amount of REAL people I have seen on the internet in the past 2 weeks has just blown my mind and got me very excited about what I am now learning about just being me. Thanks for being so real! You just cant help but instantly like people just like you Ray. This video is just how it is. People have gotta stop whingeing and get on with their damn lives. Atleast the small percentage of us who have worked hard on ouselves are going to grow and have an awesome life with our family -than grow old, having worked hard 9-5 every day for somebody elses dream. Thanks for sharing!
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June 7, 2010 at 9:32 am
Muchos Gracias for your article.Thanks Again. Fantastic.
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June 23, 2010 at 2:56 am
Ray,
This video has helped me quite a bit. I have watched it a few times. I’m glad to be a part of the team and your leadership. You are truly killing it with all your knowledge. than ks.
Rocky
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July 21, 2010 at 2:26 pm
WOW!.. Big Fella, Great shoot very powerfull! Full of Energy and Inspiration!!! I know you are like that 24/7. Bring on daily inspiration from Baxter the Maltese to your blog!! Go easy on Chris’s Hair …lol
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August 1, 2010 at 2:09 pm
That is some inspirational stuff. Never knew that opinions could be this varied. Thanks for all the enthusiasm to offer such helpful information here.
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August 3, 2010 at 11:39 pm
Thank you Ray very good information
Carmen Hines
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November 9, 2010 at 12:22 pm
There is an investment for anything worth doing
time money, training but its worth it
I see so many selling out to a suckey job
rock on ray
mlmsamurai,,,
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November 14, 2010 at 8:38 pm
Hi Ray,
powerful video. It always amazes how creative people are when it comes to finding excuses. If they invested this energy in the daily discipline, the consistency, the persistence, they would be millioniares.
I would even say, that discipline is the only “skill” that is required – because confidence comes through consistent daily action over a longer period of time. Success breeds success.
Thanks for sharing this video and good luck with clearing up your office
Take care
Oliver
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Ray Higdon Reply:
November 16th, 2010 at 2:49 pm
I agree with you, discipline is key
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November 14, 2010 at 9:01 pm
Hey Ray,
I think that most people fail because they don’t have the right mindset. If you go in with the wrong mindset from the start, it dramatically puts your level of success in jeopardy.
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November 15, 2010 at 11:53 pm
Hey Ray,
I super appreciate this strong and powerful video that you shared with us. We´re very similar. I don´t have a degree, had a seemingly bad childhood, was involved in many crappy things, but that still doesn´t determine who I am.
There can happen a billion things in your life, there can happen so much that other people might believe that he´s lost. In fact, you can lose everything that you have; your house, your car, your job, your haircut, but there´s something that NOBODY can ever take away from you.
THIS IS WHO YOU ARE.
It´s all about your mindset and how you deal with your current situation.
P.S Working with a solid haircut truly helps
Keep going.
Gerald
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Ray Higdon Reply:
November 16th, 2010 at 2:50 pm
Yeah Gerald, thanks bro
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November 16, 2010 at 3:28 am
Great info Ray! Very good post for newbies.
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November 16, 2010 at 3:41 am
Ray,
Wow, you pretty much covered everything as far as excuses go. I think you left out I have a corn on my toe, lol.
Great information as usual.
Thanks!
Karen
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November 16, 2010 at 2:32 pm
WOW. I was just nodding the whole time I watched this. I had NONE of the things that you mentioned and yet I got off to a great start just by focusing on Discipline and Confidence. This is pure GENIUS. You’ve totally hit the nail on the head in this video!
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Ray Higdon Reply:
November 16th, 2010 at 2:50 pm
Aw, thank you so much!
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November 16, 2010 at 2:32 pm
oh…but I did get a cool haircut with my first check
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Ray Higdon Reply:
November 16th, 2010 at 2:50 pm
Very important!
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May 3, 2011 at 9:55 am
Powerful message Ray, you actually put the myths to rest in a very unique way. Love the way you teach keep up the good work were watching and Learning
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