Comments for rayhigdon.com http://rayhigdon.com Homebased Business Coach Sat, 04 Feb 2012 20:47:25 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on The Things Not Said Kill Relationships by Erwin Mcken http://rayhigdon.com/building-business-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-31258 Erwin Mcken Sat, 04 Feb 2012 20:47:25 +0000 http://rayhigdon.com/?p=5039#comment-31258 Hi Ray, this post is so full of truth and timely for many in our company but also our industry. We had to apply this to a rep in our business recently. Thankfully because we love and value each other we repaired the lines of communication. Appreciate you Ray for being so in tune and speaking these things in posts when so many other leaders just spew senseless noise! Love you bro function sbmgOptinValidateForm763(name,email) { var name_fld = document.getElementById('sbmgOptinValidateForm763' + '_' + name); var email_fld = document.getElementById('sbmgOptinValidateForm763' + '_' + email); var reg = /^([A-Za-z0-9_\-\.])+\@([A-Za-z0-9_\-\.])+\.([A-Za-z]{2,4})$/; var msg = ''; if ( name_fld.value == '' ) msg = '- Name Required\n'; if ( reg.test(email_fld.value) == false ) msg += '- Valid Email Required'; if ( msg == '' ) return true; else alert(msg); return false; }

Hi Ray, this post is so full of truth and timely for many in our company but also our industry. We had to apply this to a rep in our business recently. Thankfully because we love and value each other we repaired the lines of communication. Appreciate you Ray for being so in tune and speaking these things in posts when so many other leaders just spew senseless noise! Love you bro

]]> Comment on The Things Not Said Kill Relationships by Rick Dunstan http://rayhigdon.com/building-business-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-31257 Rick Dunstan Sat, 04 Feb 2012 19:43:11 +0000 http://rayhigdon.com/?p=5039#comment-31257 When the student is ready, the teacher appears. Almost every aspect of my social life is in the dumps because at 60 I have always been a quiet, maybe autistic, personality. But these last few years I have been thinking and feeling almost everything you bring out here; and I did not do anything about it because I have always not interacted much with others and felt quite unsure about what to do about it. Now I know you had the same insights and published them on your blog was a miracle waiting to happen. You're a genius, when are you going to campaign for President of USA? function sbmgOptinValidateForm434(name,email) { var name_fld = document.getElementById('sbmgOptinValidateForm434' + '_' + name); var email_fld = document.getElementById('sbmgOptinValidateForm434' + '_' + email); var reg = /^([A-Za-z0-9_\-\.])+\@([A-Za-z0-9_\-\.])+\.([A-Za-z]{2,4})$/; var msg = ''; if ( name_fld.value == '' ) msg = '- Name Required\n'; if ( reg.test(email_fld.value) == false ) msg += '- Valid Email Required'; if ( msg == '' ) return true; else alert(msg); return false; }

When the student is ready, the teacher appears. Almost every aspect of my social life is in the dumps because at 60 I have always been a quiet, maybe autistic, personality. But these last few years I have been thinking and feeling almost everything you bring out here; and I did not do anything about it because I have always not interacted much with others and felt quite unsure about what to do about it. Now I know you had the same insights and published them on your blog was a miracle waiting to happen.

You’re a genius, when are you going to campaign for President of USA?

]]> Comment on The Things Not Said Kill Relationships by Shane Carpenter http://rayhigdon.com/building-business-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-31255 Shane Carpenter Sat, 04 Feb 2012 19:41:21 +0000 http://rayhigdon.com/?p=5039#comment-31255 Communication and caring is the key. If you care enough to communicate tactfully, the relationships you have will prosper. And if you want to experience something remarkable, rekindle a past relationship with someone that was once meaningful in your life...like Ray has done with his father. I know what how powerful it can be...I had that experience with an uncle of mine that was like a father to me while growing up. "Don't be arrogant by assuming that you know it all, that you have a monopoly on the truth; always assume that you can learn something from someone else." Jim Rohn function sbmgOptinValidateForm304(name,email) { var name_fld = document.getElementById('sbmgOptinValidateForm304' + '_' + name); var email_fld = document.getElementById('sbmgOptinValidateForm304' + '_' + email); var reg = /^([A-Za-z0-9_\-\.])+\@([A-Za-z0-9_\-\.])+\.([A-Za-z]{2,4})$/; var msg = ''; if ( name_fld.value == '' ) msg = '- Name Required\n'; if ( reg.test(email_fld.value) == false ) msg += '- Valid Email Required'; if ( msg == '' ) return true; else alert(msg); return false; }

Communication and caring is the key. If you care enough to communicate tactfully, the relationships you have will prosper. And if you want to experience something remarkable, rekindle a past relationship with someone that was once meaningful in your life…like Ray has done with his father. I know what how powerful it can be…I had that experience with an uncle of mine that was like a father to me while growing up.

“Don’t be arrogant by assuming that you know it all, that you have a monopoly on the truth; always assume that you can learn something from someone else.” Jim Rohn

]]> Comment on The Things Not Said Kill Relationships by Richard Duke http://rayhigdon.com/building-business-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-31254 Richard Duke Sat, 04 Feb 2012 19:10:14 +0000 http://rayhigdon.com/?p=5039#comment-31254 Most people in Internet Marketing know what an Article Spinner is, to many people life is the same way. They put different words or thoughts in their life spinner and get different results in their head every time they "Spin" a situation. function sbmgOptinValidateForm515(name,email) { var name_fld = document.getElementById('sbmgOptinValidateForm515' + '_' + name); var email_fld = document.getElementById('sbmgOptinValidateForm515' + '_' + email); var reg = /^([A-Za-z0-9_\-\.])+\@([A-Za-z0-9_\-\.])+\.([A-Za-z]{2,4})$/; var msg = ''; if ( name_fld.value == '' ) msg = '- Name Required\n'; if ( reg.test(email_fld.value) == false ) msg += '- Valid Email Required'; if ( msg == '' ) return true; else alert(msg); return false; }

Most people in Internet Marketing know what an Article Spinner is, to many people life is the same way. They put different words or thoughts in their life spinner and get different results in their head every time they “Spin” a situation.

]]> Comment on The Things Not Said Kill Relationships by Ray Gebauer http://rayhigdon.com/building-business-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-31253 Ray Gebauer Sat, 04 Feb 2012 19:03:51 +0000 http://rayhigdon.com/?p=5039#comment-31253 I appreciated your comments and insights. You are absolutely correct--we all tend to make up way too much stuff based on speculation (as if we can read someone's mind and motives), assume it is true and then defend it as if our life depended upon it. So we create invisible but very divisive barriers, instead of seeking the real truth that can serve to connect us and create harmony and acceptance. www.RayGebauer.org function sbmgOptinValidateForm599(name,email) { var name_fld = document.getElementById('sbmgOptinValidateForm599' + '_' + name); var email_fld = document.getElementById('sbmgOptinValidateForm599' + '_' + email); var reg = /^([A-Za-z0-9_\-\.])+\@([A-Za-z0-9_\-\.])+\.([A-Za-z]{2,4})$/; var msg = ''; if ( name_fld.value == '' ) msg = '- Name Required\n'; if ( reg.test(email_fld.value) == false ) msg += '- Valid Email Required'; if ( msg == '' ) return true; else alert(msg); return false; }

I appreciated your comments and insights. You are absolutely correct–we all tend to make up way too much stuff based on speculation (as if we can read someone's mind and motives), assume it is true and then defend it as if our life depended upon it. So we create invisible but very divisive barriers, instead of seeking the real truth that can serve to connect us and create harmony and acceptance. http://www.RayGebauer.org

]]> Comment on The Things Not Said Kill Relationships by Mike Bragg http://rayhigdon.com/building-business-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-31251 Mike Bragg Sat, 04 Feb 2012 19:01:57 +0000 http://rayhigdon.com/?p=5039#comment-31251 Hey Ray, great post! I have as I am sure most people have let things build up without talking about them which like you said lets your mind go. and you try to validate you were right. Not the right approach and it won't do anyone any good. Appreciate you Bro:) Mike Bragg function sbmgOptinValidateForm672(name,email) { var name_fld = document.getElementById('sbmgOptinValidateForm672' + '_' + name); var email_fld = document.getElementById('sbmgOptinValidateForm672' + '_' + email); var reg = /^([A-Za-z0-9_\-\.])+\@([A-Za-z0-9_\-\.])+\.([A-Za-z]{2,4})$/; var msg = ''; if ( name_fld.value == '' ) msg = '- Name Required\n'; if ( reg.test(email_fld.value) == false ) msg += '- Valid Email Required'; if ( msg == '' ) return true; else alert(msg); return false; }

Hey Ray, great post! I have as I am sure most people have let things build up without talking about them which like you said lets your mind go. and you try to validate you were right. Not the right approach and it won’t do anyone any good. Appreciate you Bro:)
Mike Bragg

]]> Comment on The Things Not Said Kill Relationships by Ray Higdon http://rayhigdon.com/building-business-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-31248 Ray Higdon Sat, 04 Feb 2012 18:07:19 +0000 http://rayhigdon.com/?p=5039#comment-31248 So honored to help my friend! function sbmgOptinValidateForm842(name,email) { var name_fld = document.getElementById('sbmgOptinValidateForm842' + '_' + name); var email_fld = document.getElementById('sbmgOptinValidateForm842' + '_' + email); var reg = /^([A-Za-z0-9_\-\.])+\@([A-Za-z0-9_\-\.])+\.([A-Za-z]{2,4})$/; var msg = ''; if ( name_fld.value == '' ) msg = '- Name Required\n'; if ( reg.test(email_fld.value) == false ) msg += '- Valid Email Required'; if ( msg == '' ) return true; else alert(msg); return false; }

So honored to help my friend!

]]> Comment on The Things Not Said Kill Relationships by Ray Higdon http://rayhigdon.com/building-business-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-31247 Ray Higdon Sat, 04 Feb 2012 18:01:39 +0000 http://rayhigdon.com/?p=5039#comment-31247 Thanks so much Andy! function sbmgOptinValidateForm659(name,email) { var name_fld = document.getElementById('sbmgOptinValidateForm659' + '_' + name); var email_fld = document.getElementById('sbmgOptinValidateForm659' + '_' + email); var reg = /^([A-Za-z0-9_\-\.])+\@([A-Za-z0-9_\-\.])+\.([A-Za-z]{2,4})$/; var msg = ''; if ( name_fld.value == '' ) msg = '- Name Required\n'; if ( reg.test(email_fld.value) == false ) msg += '- Valid Email Required'; if ( msg == '' ) return true; else alert(msg); return false; }

Thanks so much Andy!

]]> Comment on The Things Not Said Kill Relationships by AntwuanBell http://rayhigdon.com/building-business-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-31245 AntwuanBell Sat, 04 Feb 2012 17:40:51 +0000 http://rayhigdon.com/?p=5039#comment-31245 WOW! Ray You hit me cross the head with this one. Normally I hold things in and just assume but not anymore. You have shed some light in my life thanks bro. function sbmgOptinValidateForm850(name,email) { var name_fld = document.getElementById('sbmgOptinValidateForm850' + '_' + name); var email_fld = document.getElementById('sbmgOptinValidateForm850' + '_' + email); var reg = /^([A-Za-z0-9_\-\.])+\@([A-Za-z0-9_\-\.])+\.([A-Za-z]{2,4})$/; var msg = ''; if ( name_fld.value == '' ) msg = '- Name Required\n'; if ( reg.test(email_fld.value) == false ) msg += '- Valid Email Required'; if ( msg == '' ) return true; else alert(msg); return false; }

WOW! Ray
You hit me cross the head with this one. Normally I hold things in and just assume but not anymore. You have shed some light in my life thanks bro.

]]> Comment on Should Network Marketers Carry Business Cards? by Ian Jarvis Hathaway http://rayhigdon.com/should-network-marketers-carry-business-cards/comment-page-1/#comment-31244 Ian Jarvis Hathaway Sat, 04 Feb 2012 17:22:40 +0000 http://rayhigdon.com/?p=5014#comment-31244 Another option is Dollar Cards www.dollarcardatl.com function sbmgOptinValidateForm749(name,email) { var name_fld = document.getElementById('sbmgOptinValidateForm749' + '_' + name); var email_fld = document.getElementById('sbmgOptinValidateForm749' + '_' + email); var reg = /^([A-Za-z0-9_\-\.])+\@([A-Za-z0-9_\-\.])+\.([A-Za-z]{2,4})$/; var msg = ''; if ( name_fld.value == '' ) msg = '- Name Required\n'; if ( reg.test(email_fld.value) == false ) msg += '- Valid Email Required'; if ( msg == '' ) return true; else alert(msg); return false; }

Another option is Dollar Cards
http://www.dollarcardatl.com

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